Dear Girls (from the Guys)

I found this very interesting post from our bulletins from Friendster, and I decided to share it with you:

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*Don't assume that guys won't care
where you are, because we do.
It makes us feel secure to know that
our girlfriends aren't off flirting
with guys we've never heard of.

*Also, don't talk about your ex-
boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect
or like them, nor do we want to hear
about them.
When you do, you're asking your
boyfriend to be jealous.
You're asking your boyfriend to lose
trust.

*On that, don't hump everything that
walks into the room.
We don't care if you talk to other
guys.
We don't care if you're friends with
other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us,
and some random guy walks into the
room and you jump up and tackle him,
without even introducing us, yeah, it
pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and
talk to him for ten minutes without
even acknowledging the fact that we're
still there.

*Also, when we tell you you're pretty/
beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning,
we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is
confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.

if you aren't being treated right by a
guy, don't wait for him to change.
Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-
population ass, and find someone who
will treat you with utter respect.

*Don't be mad when we hold the door
open.
Smile and say "thank you."
Let us pay for you.
Don't "feel bad."
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say - everybody together
now - "thank you."

*Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know nobody's
looking we'll be more impressed.

*You don't have to get dressed up for
us.
If we're going out with you in the
first place, you don't have to feel
the need to wear the shortest skirt
you have, put on every kind of makeup
you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not
WHAT you are.

*Don't flirt with guys when we're not
around.
We'll find out. Trust us.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.
Not necessarily with the guys you
flirted with, more-so with you.

*Don't take everything we say
seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the
beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your
bible.

*Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise
or Brad Pitt is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.

*Whatever happened to the
word "handsome"?
Why does everything have to
be "hot/sexy"?
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who
greeted me with "Hey handsome!"
instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/
sexy" or whatever else you can think
of.
Claiming girls or guys to be "hot"
shows immaturity.

**Girls, I cannot stress this enough:
if you aren't being treated right by a
guy, don't wait for him to change.
Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-
population ass, and find someone who
will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when
you're at your lowest.